A little planning. A better date.

Apply, then book.

Create a profile and apply to a batch with a short video. Profiles are private by default. The host sees the profile you submit and that application’s video. The host reviews applications privately, then sets the schedule and sends invitations. An invitation lets you book an available slot; it does not reserve or guarantee one. You can hold one active slot per batch.

$100 to commit. $75 back for showing up.

Secure Stripe Checkout holds your chosen slot for about 30 minutes. Your booking is confirmed only after successful payment. Either the host marking your arrival or your private selfie at the venue table triggers the same $75 refund. The platform retains $25 before processing costs. Selfies are evidence, not infallible attendance verification.

Cancellation & no-shows

If you cancel or fail to attend, the entire $100 goes to the platform. Hosts receive no share. If the host cancels, fails to show, or misses the venue deadline, you receive a full $100 refund. If $75 was already refunded, the remaining $25 is refunded. Refunds are asynchronous and the time to appear depends on your bank. Original Stripe processing fees are not returned to the platform.

Report a host no-show from your booking after the date. Support reconciles the report and issues the full refund when confirmed. There is no separate late-arrival penalty.

A real place. A precise time.

All dates are in person. General areas and planned days are visible before applying. Hosts choose private venues when planning; exact time slots come with invitations. Only booked attendees receive their day's exact venue, on the previous day in the venue’s local timezone. The previous-day noon venue deadline still applies to existing batches.

Arrive 10 minutes early. Dates start and end at the booked times. They cannot run late or be extended. Separate host windows allow lunch and other breaks. Cancelling a booking reopens its slot.

Helpful reminders

Booking confirmation and venue details arrive by email. Your booking page always contains the current details. SMS reminders are not available yet.

Your contact, on your terms.

After a date, opt in or out privately. Opting in immediately shares your preferred contact with the host. If they select you, their contact is shared back. Hosts may choose multiple people. You can change your decision, but information already seen cannot be recalled. This is where the platform steps aside.

Privacy & respect

Your login email and reminder phone number are private. A public host profile contains only the name, age, city, bio, preferences, and profile photos you choose to publish. Application videos are only accessible to their owner and the specific host receiving that application. Withdrawing an application revokes host access. Attendance selfies remain private to their owner and authorized operational review.

You must be 18 or older. Meet in a public place, respect each other’s boundaries, and tell someone you trust your plans. Upload only media you have permission to share.